For NICU Siblings
Visiting Restrictions
For the health and safety of all the babies in the NICU, sibling visits are not permitted at this time. We appreciate your understanding and patience.
Dear Parents,
We realize this can be a stressful time for you, and your whole family. You're not only trying to deal with your feelings and questions about your baby, but your older child's as well. We have created this tour to help you educate your child about the NICU environment and prepare to meet the new baby.
We believe every child is unique and that you know your child the best. We want you and your child to have a positive family experience when spending time with your baby.
Here are our Sibling Visitation Guidelines and some suggestions to help you have a successful visit.
NICU Sibling Visitation Guidelines
- Siblings 3 years old and up may visit in the NICU.
- Discuss the best time for a sibling visit with your baby’s nurse.
- Siblings must be supervised by an adult at all times.
- Siblings must be free of any signs of illness (runny nose, fever, cough, etc.).
- A Sibling Health Screen will be completed by a nurse before for each visit.
- Sibling visitation hours are: 8:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m., 7 days a week.
- Siblings may be asked to step out for rounds or change of shift if their behavior interferes with the safe exchange of information. Nursing change of shift is between 6:46-7:45 a.m. and p.m.
At all times, the medical and nursing staff reserve the right to ask visitors to leave if the need arises.
Preparing for the Visit
Young Children (Preschool-Early Elementary)
- Review the Sibling Preparation Tour with your child before the visit.
- Show your child a picture of your baby before the visit.
- It can be helpful to refer to the tour information when you visit with the baby to support sibling's understanding of the NICU environment and what is being done for your baby.
- Visits for children in this age group typically last 5-15 minutes. This is developmentally appropriate. If your child is becoming upset or disruptive it’s time to take a break. Remember, we want this to be a positive experience for everyone!
- There is a Sibling Clubhouse for siblings 18 months to 10 years of age in the lobby of the Children’s Hospital. This is a safe place where they can play up to three hours a day/7 days a week. Ask the NICU staff for more details when you are admitted to the NICU.
- For children in this age group, it’s often better for the sibling to visit their baby close to the discharge date when the baby is stronger and in most cases able to be touched.
Older Children
- Review the Sibling Preparation Tour with your child before the visit.
- Show your child a picture of your baby before the visit.
- If your child has questions you can't answer, write them down so they can ask the staff in the NICU.
- Plan activities the sibling can do with the baby like read a story or sing a song.
- Think of things the sibling can bring for the baby like a drawing, a photo, a toy.
- Have the sibling bring quiet activities they can do at the bedside when the baby is sleeping.
Your nurse can contact the NICU Child Life Specialist, if you have other questions or would like additional support in preparing your child to meet your baby.
~ The Child Life Team