Parental Conflicts – Helping Kids Feel Safe

Everyone has disagreements at times. When there are children around during this time it is important to be aware that they are listening. First it is best to hold off and choose a private place and time to discuss sensitive issues.

The following are some tips to manage difficult communication or adult arguments to avoid the potential harmful effects on children if an argument arises when they are present.

• Avoid personal attacks by focusing on the issues and avoiding personal insults or name-calling.
• When disagreements are heated, strive for a calm and respectful tone.
• Demonstrate healthy ways of resolving conflicts (active listening, compromise, negotiating).
• Apologize and make amends if appropriate to show it’s normal to end on a good note after a conflict.
• Offer reassurance to a child if they witness an argument. Convey to them that a conflict does not mean they are in any danger and they are loved.

Learn more here: Adult arguments and kids

8/1/2024