URMC / Employee Assistance Program / News & Events / UR Medicine EAP Blog / May 2017 May 2017 Getting Couples' Communication Unstuck Communication problems are still the most commonly cited reason for separation and divorce, so don’t let the frustration of communication problems linger too long in your relationship before taking steps to intervene. Find Work and Family Balance with Shared Activities If you struggle to find balance between work and family, try “shared activity” as a strategy to help you feel less guilty and score some wins.